A mutual friend is a bit of an exaggeration... This guy trained me at my past job, and I took his position when he left to work for Lockheed... That is the extent of this "mutual" friend. I know the guy, but I do not hang out with him and havnt even talked to him in well over a year.
I never went to her house, being honest here, she always came over mine... I mean I had suspicions that something wasn't right but I wasn't expecting it to be that, and not from a 24 year old girl. Idk really, it was one of those things that was pretty casual that she worked near me, we would meet up often for lunch, we would go out publicly, or she would come to my place... Who knows but im not stressing it haha. Just was surprised it happened, and ended in such a way.
I was talking about this thread to my g/f, and her comment was "What? Didn't he ever go to her house? That's a HUGE red flag."
Well, live and learn, and next time you just need to say "Show me where you sleep woman."