way too much to read. Bye.
After the kiss, she went back home and probably blew her boyfriend.
Make sure you kiss her tomorrow!!!
Also, she will probably spill the beans and you will get an arse whoopin from her boyfriend.
Seriously, don't fug with other peoples significant others until they are thru with it. You ARE that guy.
All you can do now is wait around and see what she does. Expect NOTHING, this way you won't feel bad when NOTHING comes.
Nothing wrong with coming here for some unbiased advice. I've never met any of you guys but I know most of you are straight shooters and won't candy coat **** for me. A few extra opinions never killed anyone eh?
Last edited by i3rent; 08-28-2011 at 12:21 AM.
As stated earlier in the thread it really sounds like you are being put on back up so when primary douche fails hard enough she can turn to you for help. If I was you I would distance myself and keep yourself busy to keep your mind off her. Then move on, sure she may come crawling back but then the ball is in your court and you can booty call her anytime.
I'll be in my bunk.
Like others have said, just leave her be and move on. Her relationship with him is none of your business. A good friend's GF always comes to me with their issues and I kindly redirect her to her man and tell her to talk to him.
Thanks to all of you that gave me some insightful and helpful info, its honestly much appreciated.
To those of you that told me to move on, some times I wish I really could. Something in my heart loves this girl and just won't let her go until I know what we could be again.
Call me stupid, annoying, sappy, hopeless or whatever you want. I have to take a chance on it, maybe I'm just hoping for a stupid story book ending but I'll never know what's going to happen unless I take a chance.
I've been in a similar situation.
Had feelings for a friend of mine. Told her. She went out with douchebags. I sacked up, told her how I felt and told her to drop these pricks and get with me. She didn't. I ignored her and now we're just friends. I'm 100% cool with it now.
After a while, you realize the girl is more trouble than she's worth OR it works out.
My advice: Man up, tell her how you feel, suggest that you two give it a shot, steal her from douchebag and profit.
Or she'll stay with douchebag and you'll grow to appreciate how lucky you were to dodge a totally idiotic woman who is incapable of making good decisions. And also profit.