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    1. 08-27-2011 10:20 PM #26
      way too much to read. Bye.

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      08-27-2011 10:35 PM #27
      After the kiss, she went back home and probably blew her boyfriend.

      Make sure you kiss her tomorrow!!!

      Also, she will probably spill the beans and you will get an arse whoopin from her boyfriend.

      Seriously, don't fug with other peoples significant others until they are thru with it. You ARE that guy.

      All you can do now is wait around and see what she does. Expect NOTHING, this way you won't feel bad when NOTHING comes.


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      08-27-2011 10:36 PM #28
      all that from your phone.. wow...

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      08-27-2011 10:43 PM #29
      Do you people not have confidants?

      Asking OT for relationship advice makes about as much sense as asking TCL what car to buy.

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      08-27-2011 10:57 PM #30
      Just be the piece of ass on the side.

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      08-27-2011 10:59 PM #31
      Quote Originally Posted by TwoLitreVW View Post
      wtf is this isht.

      this is OT, not relationship counseling.

      get drunk, bang some chicks, get over it.

      by the sound of it, you're too young to even care about this crap.


      life goes on.
      I'm not that type of guy. And I'll be 23 in a few months, not old nor young. I figured most people wouldn't car about my situation and Some people have given some good advice. thanks

      Quote Originally Posted by dieselraver View Post
      do nothing, let her make the choices (she has to end the relationship not you!) don't be the guy who tells her to break it off. be supportive. in the end if its meant to be it will be!


      good luck! keep us updated!
      That's a hard one to do for me. It's almost like supporting someone with a drug/gambling habit. Yes I realize it's not the same thing at all but it's the only thing that came to mind.

      thanks though.

      Quote Originally Posted by Hufeisen View Post
      Funny

      I hate to say this, but it seems like you are putting forth all the effort to reconnect. Give her some space and let her realize how good of a guy it seems you are...
      Yep that's what I will try to do. Hard for me but it's worth a shot.

      Quote Originally Posted by patrikman View Post
      Do you people not have confidants?

      Asking OT for relationship advice makes about as much sense as asking TCL what car to buy.
      Yes of course I do and I have talked to them about it too.

      Nothing wrong with coming here for some unbiased advice. I've never met any of you guys but I know most of you are straight shooters and won't candy coat **** for me. A few extra opinions never killed anyone eh?

      Quote Originally Posted by VdubChaos View Post
      Seriously, don't fug with other peoples significant others until they are thru with it. You ARE that guy.

      All you can do now is wait around and see what she does. Expect NOTHING, this way you won't feel bad when NOTHING comes.

      I'm not saying that what happened was right or wrong but I will say that it takes two, I know what she sees in me that she doesn't in her bf. What that has to do with kissing her i've got no idea? but it sounded good.
      Last edited by i3rent; 08-28-2011 at 12:21 AM.
      Hi.

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      08-27-2011 11:12 PM #32
      Get a neck tat. Chicks dig the earning power.

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      08-27-2011 11:25 PM #33
      Quote Originally Posted by i3rent View Post
      But she would get a little too cold for my taste if I shot her.
      That you would make light of a post that made light of your serious concerns may be what she instinctively sees.

      I hope this helps.

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      08-28-2011 12:14 AM #34
      Quote Originally Posted by Tinker Toy View Post
      That you would make light of a post that made light of your serious concerns may be what she instinctively sees.

      I hope this helps.
      While I'm not sure whether you think this is a plus for me or a negative...?

      No harm in joking around at my own expense, everyone needs to laugh every once in a great while even when semi-serious matters are involved.

      Thanks much, I really appreciate this post.
      Hi.

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      08-28-2011 12:35 AM #35
      Quote Originally Posted by butterface View Post
      Lots and lots of words. I stared at the post for 45 seconds and saw a sailboat.
      You're on fire lately.

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      08-28-2011 02:07 AM #36
      Quote Originally Posted by butterface View Post
      Lots and lots of words. I stared at the post for 45 seconds and saw a sailboat.
      Lololololololol

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      08-28-2011 02:11 AM #37
      Quote Originally Posted by ABAcabby View Post
      She'll inevitably do whatever you don't want her to do.
      x2 on this, you already know what i think.


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      just dont bother with her for a while imo.
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      08-28-2011 02:37 AM #38
      Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Roloff View Post
      My guess is that while he is a douche, he probably slings the ding-a-ling in a most desirable fashion.
      I rofl'd and lol'd heartily at this. Excellent zinger, kind sir!
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      08-28-2011 03:16 AM #39
      TLDNR. I'm going to assume this is the standard "I like vaginas, but don't like having to deal with those pesky human beings attached to them" rant though. You have two alternatives:





      Take your pick.

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      08-28-2011 03:22 AM #40
      As stated earlier in the thread it really sounds like you are being put on back up so when primary douche fails hard enough she can turn to you for help. If I was you I would distance myself and keep yourself busy to keep your mind off her. Then move on, sure she may come crawling back but then the ball is in your court and you can booty call her anytime.
      I'll be in my bunk.

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      08-28-2011 09:41 AM #41
      if you tell her what to do or not to do, she may hate you for it cause "she loves him"

      let her be, take her out without making any moves yet, let her come to you.

      dont fcuk it up

      good luck
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      08-28-2011 09:53 AM #42
      She'll want you a lot more if you tell her you cant be friends anymore.

      Shes having her cake and eating it to right now, and youre letting her.

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      08-28-2011 10:00 AM #43
      Quote Originally Posted by ATL_Av8r View Post
      tl;dr

      all your "female problems" should probably be asked of your gynecologist, not OT.
      Isn't a douche the best way to help cure "female problems"?
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      08-28-2011 10:42 AM #44
      Quote Originally Posted by Mtl-Marc View Post
      Isn't a douche the best way to help cure "female problems"?
      Actually, women are informed by OBGYN's to NOT douche.



      Like others have said, just leave her be and move on. Her relationship with him is none of your business. A good friend's GF always comes to me with their issues and I kindly redirect her to her man and tell her to talk to him.

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      08-28-2011 12:25 PM #45
      Quote Originally Posted by Mtl-Marc View Post
      Isn't a douche the best way to help cure "female problems"?
      Well, ladies... here I am! The cure to all your problems!

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      08-28-2011 02:11 PM #46
      Thanks to all of you that gave me some insightful and helpful info, its honestly much appreciated.

      To those of you that told me to move on, some times I wish I really could. Something in my heart loves this girl and just won't let her go until I know what we could be again.

      Call me stupid, annoying, sappy, hopeless or whatever you want. I have to take a chance on it, maybe I'm just hoping for a stupid story book ending but I'll never know what's going to happen unless I take a chance.
      Hi.

    22. 08-28-2011 02:14 PM #47
      You already knew your answer.... Don't bore us with this useless thread, pics of the girl will change my opinion however.

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      08-28-2011 02:26 PM #48
      Quote Originally Posted by letmethink View Post
      You already knew your answer.... Don't bore us with this useless thread, pics of the girl will change my opinion however.
      Actually I didn't know what I was going to do until I read the responses and talked to a female coworker of mine last night.
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      08-28-2011 03:12 PM #49
      I've been in a similar situation.

      Had feelings for a friend of mine. Told her. She went out with douchebags. I sacked up, told her how I felt and told her to drop these pricks and get with me. She didn't. I ignored her and now we're just friends. I'm 100% cool with it now.

      After a while, you realize the girl is more trouble than she's worth OR it works out.


      My advice: Man up, tell her how you feel, suggest that you two give it a shot, steal her from douchebag and profit.

      Or she'll stay with douchebag and you'll grow to appreciate how lucky you were to dodge a totally idiotic woman who is incapable of making good decisions. And also profit.

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      08-28-2011 03:20 PM #50
      Quote Originally Posted by 22AudiQ View Post
      I've been in a similar situation.

      Had feelings for a friend of mine. Told her. She went out with douchebags. I sacked up, told her how I felt and told her to drop these pricks and get with me. She didn't. I ignored her and now we're just friends. I'm 100% cool with it now.

      After a while, you realize the girl is more trouble than she's worth OR it works out.


      My advice: Man up, tell her how you feel, suggest that you two give it a shot, steal her from douchebag and profit.

      Or she'll stay with douchebag and you'll grow to appreciate how lucky you were to dodge a totally idiotic woman who is incapable of making good decisions. And also profit.
      Pfft. That's too complicated. OP, just quit your job, get a neck tat, and start borrowing money from her. You'll be in like swimwear.

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